visit or email [email protected] / call The FOCCUS Inventory is not a test – there are no right or wrong answers. It is a . Our priest actually allowed us to take the FOCCUS test at home and on our own time. Then we brought them back, he scored them and we discussed some of. Our first step in preparing for a Catholic wedding was to take something called the FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication.
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Well we got our results last night and we have a lot of differences. I kindddd of wish we could take this!!!
It gives a unique profile of the couple so that the preparation work can reinforce the strengths in the relationship and concentrate discussion or problem solving on the particular challenges the couple may face. You are commenting using your WordPress. MissStellar 10 years ago Wedding: Have you had the tough conversations? I answered Uncertain a lot which turns out not to be good. I think our relationship is pretty good, although there are areas we need to talk about more.
It was just a conversation starter for me and FI! Might be worth a shot. Each partner answers separately: I sometimes feel that fest may not be the right person for me to marry.
Other things we had a short discussion about and our mentor couple gave us some guidance. October Thanks ChelseaMorning. We have decided foccsu we will share specific responsibilities in managing our finances. Email required Address never made public. Find a Facilitator in your area.
FOCCUS | Pre-Marriage Inventory
This seems like it could be fun but also eye-opening. Not hard ones, though, so don’t be worried. A little while after you take the test, you meet with the deacon, priest, or a sponsoring couple and they go over the results.
October Well we got our results last night and we have a lot of differences. A self-scoring process compares the couple’s answers to each other and to the inventory’s preferred responses. I am concerned that in-laws may interfere in our marriage relationship.
A D U 7 There are tes behaviors or habits in my future spouse that sometimes annoy me. Additinal counseling by a trained counselor might be a good extra measure as I think we need to learn to communicate better, ie. There are some items that are seen as red flags threats of violence, for example.
If any of the featured images are yours and I have failed to credit you properly, please contact me so I can add or correct a credit. August 18, at 9: Not a big deal. Here’s a link to sample questions: Not too worried about that part for myself, but I’m really curious what happens when it does! The responses are “agree” “disagree” and “unsure.
My future spouse and I can talk about our sexual fears, hopes and preferences. We did the Focus test in a group setting. A couple of things in addition to what the others have said. Is there an Inventory for Married Couples?
You can’t really fail it so even if you have areas that are a flag for concern this means that these are areas you need to working on together as a couple. Just foccs the questions honestly and you will be fine.
So, with a Catholic mass comes Catholic Wedding Prep! The questions are soooooo ambigious and badly worded, and every single question you wrote “uncertain” on was probably flagged as unmatching. Ours was a scantron-style tewt sheet, so they just ttest it into the machine. I sometimes feel that this may not be the right person for me to marry.
Then we brought them back, he scored them and we discussed some of the issues he thought we might have down the road.
My future spouse and I agree that our marriage commitment means we intend to pledge love under all circumstances. He never said anything, so one can only assume all was reasonably well…. If the priest is the course organizer, I would wait late after class one night and tell him trst your concerns. Is this a real thing? Teet were in a bar graph showing percentages and there are asterisk in each sections so the more asterisk you get the better.
While FOCCUS is not a test and is not used to label couples or predict marital outcome, the report is used by the Facilitator to help couples celebrate their relationship strengths and talk to each other about topics tesf further attention. Home My Account Shopping Cart.
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