The FOCCUS is **not **a test, it’s an instrument. The instrument does not have right or wrong answers. Being honest is essential in whether or. We’re taking the Foccuss prep test this Saturday and I’m really nervous! Should I be?! Help!. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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No, do NOT be nervous!

We discussed our Foccus test with a marriage counselor assigned by the catholic church and he went through all the questions that we were very different on. The editions are written for those who read at a 6th grade reading level except for the Alternate and Abridged Edition, which are more simplified. But we had foccs talked about most of those things — heck, some of them we talked about before we even started dating.

We had a great time. I think our relationship is pretty good, although there are areas we need to talk about more. And I dont understand the whole secrecy about this test.

Sample Questions

Instead of relying on the Queetions test, I would recommend getting one of those ” questions for couples before they get married” books and going through it to give you areas for discussion. To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: We quesstions discussed the ways our families solved problems and how this may affect our problem solving.

A few silly questions: Sign in with facebook. DH is also Catholic and his family is much more into it that I am to the point it drives me nuts. I’m an episcopalian and we don’t have the same tradition as the catholic church – pre marriage counseling is a part of it but no list of questions per se.


Here’s a link to sample questions: The Deacon administered our test. We had things that were flagged for discussion. Other things we had a short discussion about and our mentor couple gave us some guidance.

The results form doesnt include questoons orginial question which makes it hard to figure out what some of the discussions should be. There are qualities about my future question that I do not respect. Pre-Marriage Inventory on any personal computer using log-in information provided by their Facilitator.


My future spouse and I can talk candidly about our sexual intimacy in marriage. The idea is to make sure that, as a couple, you have thought through and discussed many of these topics before jumping into marriage; if not, now is the time. I have HUGE issues with the Catholic church to foccuz point I dispise going to church and listening to the crap they preach.

So at our meeting I just ‘yes’ed them to death and said it was just that I interpret it loosely and DH interprets things literally.! I like your suggestion on the questions book.

FOCCUS | Pre-Marriage Inventory Sample Questions

August 19, at 7: We do not share our email database with any marketers or third parties. Some are difficult to understand. Then we brought them back, he scored them and we discussed some of the issues he thought we might have down the road. The online test is fpccus easy to understand and may put you guys at ease. Learn more about our wedding prep here: Would we recommend it for others?

We FAILED Foccus.

A D U 39 My future spouse and I are open to having children. She was definitely a little more anxious going into the whole experience toccus I was.

Billy — so true…I should have been a little more careful about my wording! On some questions like the one about whether you worry your in laws will interfer in your married life, I put agree and my h2b put disagree, it was doccus as something we need to discuss which was dumb because we have discussed it and although he asssures me his parents wont, he knows I worry about it. What did we think coming into it?


We are in agreement about the husband and wife roles each of us expects of the other in our marriage relationship.

Some of them were really thought-provoking. I hope this helps. So don’t worry, It is basically questions on how both of you feel about your realtionship, what you you think your family feels, finances, sex, parenting. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. I have zero knowledge of the Catholic church, but I wanted to just give a comment here as well from my experience in pre-marital counseling — my pastor came right out and said that he did NOT like marrying young people!

The questions are soooooo ambigious and badly worded, and every single question you wrote “uncertain” on was probably flagged as unmatching. My future spouse and I have discussed what roles we expect from each other. So basically we aced the test and will thus live together in perfect marital bliss forever and always.

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We took ours a while back and there are a LOT of questions! I would be surprised if all or whatever questions of you and FI’s matched up, but the next steps are you sit down with our priest in our case, I dunno if that’s everywhere but questionns discuss the questions. Groomy and I already know that about each other because we have lived together for so long.